Tuesday, September 2, 2025

How to Decoupage a Tabletop for Autumn Decor (Beginners Guide)

This how to guide was created for the curious, the cautious, and the creatively restless. Maybe you’ve got a wooden table that’s seen better days, or maybe you just want to bring autumn indoors in a way that feels personal. Either way, this is a slow, satisfying process that turns tissue paper into something lasting.



Step One: Start with What You Have

You don’t need fancy tools or a studio setup. Just a wooden table (even a thrifted one), some autumn-themed tissue paper, decoupage glue (Mod Podge works fine), a soft brush, and a clear sealant. If your table has a glossy finish, give it a light sanding with fine-grit paper. You’re not trying to strip it just rough it up enough so the glue has something to hold onto.



Step Two: Choose Your Paper and Cut It to Fit

Pick a design that speaks to you. Rust-colored florals, copper leaves, anything that feels like the autumn season. Lay the paper over the tabletop and trim it to size. If your paper is thin or delicate, work slowly tissue tears easily, and you’ll want clean edges. You can also tear the paper for a more organic look, but that’s a style choice, not a rule.

Step Three: Glue with Intention

Brush a thin layer of decoupage glue directly onto the tabletop. Not too much just enough to make the surface tacky. Then gently lay your paper down, starting at one edge and smoothing as you go. Use your fingers or a soft cloth to press out any air bubbles. If it wrinkles, don’t panic. Most wrinkles settle as the glue dries, and a few imperfections just make it look handmade.

Step Four: Let It Dry, Then Seal It

Once the paper is fully adhered and dry (give it a few hours), brush on a layer of clear sealant. This protects the design and gives it a finished look. You can use matte or gloss depending on your style. Let it dry completely, then add a second coat. If you want a super smooth finish, lightly sand between coats with fine-grit paper.

Step Five: Style It for the Season

Now the fun part. Add a mug of cider, a stack of books, a vase of dried flowers. Your table isn’t just furniture anymore it’s a seasonal statement. You made it. You styled it. And you taught yourself something new.  

 Footnote: Autumn is a great time to shop yard sales. You might stumble across wooden furniture just waiting to be transformed into a decoupage masterpiece. Keep an eye out for tables, trays, or even drawer fronts with good bones and a flat surface you’ll be surprised what a little glue and paper can do.

Monday, September 1, 2025

How to Decoupage Autumn Hat Boxes with Leaf Print Tissue Paper

Autumn is a season of texture, color, and quiet transformation and your home décor can reflect that beautifully. One of the most charming ways to celebrate fall is by creating custom decoupage hat boxes using leaf print tissue paper. These boxes aren’t just decorative; they double as storage for your seasonal decorations, keeping everything tidy and ready for next year.



Materials You’ll Need:

Round or oval hat boxes (cardboard or papier-mâché work best)

Leaf print tissue paper (like the one shown above)

Decoupage glue (e.g., Mod Podge)

Soft brush or sponge applicator

Scissors

Optional: matte sealant spray for added durability

 Step-by-Step Instructions:

1. Prep Your Surface
Wipe down the hat boxes to remove any dust or residue. If the surface is glossy, lightly sand it to help the glue adhere better.

2. Cut Your Tissue Paper
Trim the leaf print tissue paper into manageable sections. You can cut around individual leaves for a collage effect or use full sheets for a seamless wrap.

3. Apply the Glue
Using your brush, apply a thin layer of decoupage glue to a small section of the box. Gently press the tissue paper onto the glue, smoothing out wrinkles with your fingers or a soft sponge.

4. Layer and Seal
Continue working in sections until the entire box is covered. Once dry, apply a top coat of glue over the paper to seal it. Let it dry fully before stacking or storing.

5. Style Your Display
Stack your finished hat boxes near a cozy corner, entryway, or mantel. Add a small pumpkin, dried leaves, or acorns for a seasonal decorations that feels both curated and organic.



Why It Works

Feature:
These decoupage hat boxes are an attractive way to decorate for fall bringing in warm tones, natural motifs, and a handmade touch that feels personal and inviting.

Benefit:
They’re not just pretty. You can store your autumn garlands, faux pumpkins, leaf garlands, and seasonal linens inside, keeping your décor organized and protected until next year.

Saturday, August 30, 2025

Haunted Highway Autumn Rituals: Missouri’s Spookiest Road Trip

 

As Halloween creeps closer and the leaves begin to fall, some of us crave more than pumpkin patches and cozy sweaters. If your idea of an autumn activity includes haunted towns, ghostly dwellings, shadowed roadways, and forest trails thick with legend this Missouri road trip is exactly what you’ve been waiting for.

But be warned: this route isn’t for the timid. It’s for the ones who seek out paranormal whispers, who document the eerie and the unexplained, who treat every foggy detour as a story waiting to be told. So, if you’re ready to chase ghosts, honor forgotten histories, and feel the chill of something watching pack your bag, grab your gear, and head into the heart of Missouri for the spookiest road trip of the season.

Haunted Highway Missouri  Ai created by Sgolis


For the Brave Ones Who Crave a Good Haunt in Missouri

If you’re one of my followers who lives for spooky rituals, haunted lore, and crisp autumn air thick with mystery this road trip is exactly what you’ve been craving. Missouri’s haunted highway isn’t just a scenic drive. It’s a descent into ghost stories, forgotten tragedies, and places that remember.

These stops carry emotional weight, spectral residue, and the kind of energy that lingers long after you’ve left. Whether you’re documenting for advocacy, ritual, or creative release, this route will test your nerve and reward your curiosity.

Haunted Highway May Missouri Ai created by Sgolis


Let’s begin.

As the leaves crisp and the air turns sharp, Missouri reveals its shadowed corners. This isn’t just a scenic drive its a reckoning. A haunted road trip through the heart of the Midwest, where history lingers and the veil thins. Whether you’re chasing ghost stories or documenting the emotional residue of place, these stops offer more than fright they offer voice.

1. Jesse James Farm & Museum (Kearney)

Outlaw folklore meets family tragedy. Visitors report flickering lights and phantom footsteps echoes of Jesse’s unfinished legacy. A must-stop for those who document myth and memory.

 2. Belvoir Winery (Liberty)

Once an Odd Fellows Home, now a winery steeped in spectral lore. Ghost tours wind through the old infirmary and orphanage. The wine is good. The energy? Unsettling.

 3. Vaile Mansion (Independence)

Victorian grandeur with a tragic twist. Sylvia Vaile’s story buried in a glass coffin, they say haunts the halls. Perfect for those who pair architectural decay with emotional resonance.

 4. Hotel Bothwell (Sedalia)

Third-floor mysteries abound. Disappearing items, disembodied voices, and a lingering sense of being watched. Stay overnight if you dare or document from the lobby.

5. Missouri State Penitentiary (Jefferson City)

“The Bloodiest 47 Acres in America.” This decommissioned prison offers guided ghost tours and raw emotional terrain. Ideal for advocacy bloggers exploring justice and trauma.

Wildwood Shadow people in the woods AI by Sgolis


 6. Zombie Road (Wildwood)

A forested trail with legends of shadow people and ghostly watchers. Best walked at dusk, with camera in hand and ritual in heart. Not for the faint of spirit.

Ghostly Brunch Lemp Mansion AI created Sgolis


7. Lemp Mansion (St. Louis)

A dynasty undone by suicide and scandal. The Lemp family’s brewing empire collapsed and their home remains one of the most haunted in America. Sunday brunch is served with a side of sorrow.

Haunted Castle Springfield Mo Ai image by Sgolis


 8. Pythian Castle (Springfield)

Built by the Knights of Pythias, later used by the military. Ghost sightings, cold spots, and a ballroom that hums with memory. A visual feast for product mockups and seasonal cards.

 9. Union Station (Kansas City)

Site of the 1933 Kansas City Massacre. The architecture is stunning, the energy heavy. Document the contrast beauty and blood, history and haunting.

This autumn, let your road trip be more than a thrill let it be a reckoning. Missouri remembers. Will you?

Friday, August 29, 2025

Autumn Bed Bug Alert: Travel Risks & Local Infestations

Bed bugs aren’t just a summer nuisance they’re seasonal hitchhikers, with peak activity in late summer and fall. As travel increases and temperatures shift, infestations quietly rise in hotels, laundromats, and multi-unit housing. Joplin, Missouri, like many mid-sized communities, is seeing a resurgence one that’s underreported but deeply felt.

This updated post builds on my original January 2025 article, which documented the rise of bed bug cases across Missouri and offered firsthand accounts, treatment strategies, and natural repellents. The issue hasn’t faded its cyclical, and it’s back.

 

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The Bigger Picture: Nationwide Activity June 2025 spike: Industry reports show a national uptick in infestations, tied to the return of pre-pandemic travel, hotel stays, and public gatherings.  No immunity for small towns: Bed bugs are equal-opportunity hitchhikers, thriving in laundromats, hotels, and multi-unit housing


 

 A Local Account: When Clean Isn’t Safe

“When our washing machine broke, we had to use a public laundromat. It looked clean a worker was mopping and wiping tables. My husband and I thought, ‘This one won’t have problems.’ Wrong. Within days, we had bed bugs.”

This firsthand account highlights a common misconception: cleanliness doesn’t guarantee safety. Bed bugs don’t discriminate. They hitch rides on clothing, laundry baskets, and even folding tables. 

 What Happened Next

  • Diatomaceous Earth (food grade) applied to floors and bedding areas
  • Mattress encased in a plastic dust mite cover
  • All bedding, drapes, and floor coverings laundered on high heat
  • DE allowed to sit for one hour before vacuuming

“We’re not sure if the bugs came from the washer or dryer, but since the laundromat was very busy,  with doors opening and closing they could’ve hitched a ride while we were folding clothes.”

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Natural Defense: Peppermint Oil Spray

For those avoiding harsh chemicals, this DIY spray offers a gentle way to repel bed bugs in laundry baskets, hotel rooms, and home bedding zones.

Ingredients

10 drops peppermint essential oil (100% pure)

1 cup distilled water

1 tbsp witch hazel or white vinegar (optional)

Spray bottle (glass or BPA-free plastic)

Instructions

1.    Add water and witch hazel/vinegar to the bottle

2.    Drop in peppermint oil and shake gently

3.    Spray lightly around laundry baskets, mattress seams, luggage, and baseboards

4.    Reapply every few hours or after laundering

“We used this spray around our laundry basket and folding area after our bed bug scare. It gave us peace of mind without the chemical fog.”

⚠️ Note: This spray repels but doesn’t kill eggs or deeply hidden bugs. Always test on fabric before full use.


 What Travelers Can Do

Whether you're staying in a hotel or using public laundry services, here’s how to protect yourself:

  • Inspect mattresses and headboards for rust-colored stains or live bugs
  • Use hard-sided luggage and avoid placing bags on upholstered furniture
  • Pack a travel-size bed bug spray (EPA-approved)
  • Launder clothes immediately after returning home—hot water and high heat only
  • Consider mattress encasements for long-term stays or high-risk areas

Hotels and Hospitality: 2025 Red Flags

As bed bug activity rises, so do concerns about hotel hygiene and pest control. Travelers should:

  • Check recent reviews for mentions of pests
  • Avoid hotels with deferred maintenance or staffing shortages
  • Report any sightings immediately and document with photos

Author's Notes:  August 2025 while there’s no official registry of bed bug cases in Joplin, pest control companies and local accounts confirm the issue is real and rising.

A January 2025 article titled “Insect Invasion: 5 Missouri Cities Combating Bed Bug Onslaught” confirms that Joplin is actively addressing infestations through community workshops and pest control partnerships. The piece highlights Joplin alongside St. Louis, Kansas City, and Springfield, noting a statewide rise in bed bug activity due to travel and public exposure.
🔗 Read the full article here

Thursday, August 28, 2025

Halloween Treat Bags with Black Cat Magic

Celebrate Halloween with these charming black cat treat bags perfect for trick-or-treating, party favors, and seasonal gift-giving. Durable, magical, and designed to delight.

 This season, let your packaging do the storytelling.

Our black cat Halloween treat bags aren’t just festive they’re functional, versatile, and designed to carry the spirit of the season wherever you go.

Why the Black Cat?
Each bag features our signature black kitten artwork curious, wide-eyed, and surrounded by glowing jack-o'-lanterns, swirling leaves, and flying bats. It’s not just a design; it’s a moment. A little wonder. A little mischief. A lot of heart. That’s the magic.

product mockup created by sgolis


Three Ways to Use Them:

  • Gift-Ready Glamour: Add orange and black tissue paper and you’ve got an instant seasonal showstopper. Perfect for hostess gifts, party favors, or a little “just because” treat.
  • Food Transport Made Festive: Heading to a Halloween gathering? These sturdy bags are ideal for carrying baked goods, wrapped treats, or even a small casserole. They’re roomy, reliable, and way more charming than a plain tote.
  • Trick-or-Treat Companion: Our medium size is perfect for little hands collecting candy. Durable enough to survive the night, and cute enough to be remembered.

Details That Matter:
Available in multiple sizes, each bag is printed with care no distortion, no shortcuts. White handles, black exterior, and your original artwork front and center. Tissue paper sold separately, but we recommend bold orange and black for maximum impact.
 

Whether you’re gifting, gathering, or ghosting around the neighborhood, these Halloween treat bags bring a little black cat magic to every moment. Designed by a colony caregiver and creative entrepreneur who knows that seasonal rituals deserve beauty, function, and truth.

View my other Halloween gift bags here 

Wednesday, August 27, 2025

Why You Need a Fast, Pet-Safe Spider Repellent This Fall

  

We got bitten by common household spiders last night as we slept very itchy bites. It was cool outdoors and all the windows were open. Now I know Diatomaceous Earth food grade works, but it’s kind of messy. So, I started wondering: would adding 6 drops of peppermint oil with Dawn dish soap and water in a spray bottle work?

Well apparently, yes it can rid your home of spiders.  So if you’re dealing with a sudden spider surge as the weather cools, this fast DIY remedy might be your best first defense.


 

 Make Your Own Peppermint Spider Spray

This natural mix is easy to make, safe for most homes, and surprisingly effective at repelling spiders from your sleeping spaces, closets, cabinets, and basements, any dark space with spiders like to hide.

DIY Recipe:

• 6–10 drops peppermint essential oil 

• 1 teaspoon Dawn dish soap 

• 1 cup water 

• Shake well in spray bottle

How to Use:  Spray around windows, door frames, baseboards, under beds, and inside cabinets. Reapply every 3–5 days or after cleaning. Avoid spraying directly on pets or their bedding.

 


Why Peppermint Oil Works

Spiders “smell” and “taste” through their legs. The menthol in peppermint oil overwhelms their sensory receptors, making treated areas feel hostile and uninhabitable. While it doesn’t kill them, it strongly discourages nesting and movement.  Studies show peppermint oil is effective against spider mites and other crawling pests, and anecdotal evidence supports its use against common house spiders 

Safety for Kids and Pets—Especially Cats

This mix is generally safe when diluted and used properly, but here’s what you need to know: Cats are sensitive to essential oils, especially in concentrated form. Never apply peppermint oil directly to their fur or bedding.  If you have cats remove them from the area you are spraying.  Let the peppermint dry before allowing cat back into the room .Use in well-ventilated areas and avoid spraying near litter boxes, food bowls, or sleeping zones. Store the spray out of reach of children and pets. Spot test surfaces

 Bonus Tip: Clean First, Spray Second

Before spraying, vacuum up webs, dust, and clutter. Spiders love quiet, undisturbed corners—so make them feel unwelcome. Then follow with your peppermint spray to seal the message. 

 Final Thoughts Not all spider bites are dangerous, but they’re never welcome. If you’re waking up itchy or spotting webs in your sanctuary spaces, don’t wait. This DIY peppermint spray is fast, effective, and safe when used with care. It’s one autumn ritual that protects your peace and your pets.


Monday, August 25, 2025

Hiking Safely in Arkansas: A Woman’s Guide to Preparedness, and Peace of Mind

 

I’ve always hiked in Arkansas in the fall. It’s my season when the air turns crisp, the leaves ignite in color, and the waterfalls run clear and cold. But this year, when my hiking buddy canceled, I found myself hesitating. After the tragic murder of a couple hiking with their children this past summer, I couldn’t shake the question: Are there trails that feel safe for a woman and her dog?

Ai image created by Sgolis


This blog is important for all women who are in the same situation because we don’t have to pass up an activity we love, not if we put safety first, bring our dogs, and prepare with intention. Fall hiking in Arkansas can still be beautiful, restorative, and empowering. Here’s how.

photo image by Susan Golis


Some of Arkansas’s most beloved fall trails remain safe, scenic, and dog-friendly. Whitaker Point, also known as Hawksbill Crag, offers iconic bluff views and a small waterfall along a moderate 2.9-mile out-and-back trail. Mount Magazine’s North Rim Trail provides sweeping overlooks and creek crossings, with cell service available in most areas. Seven Hollows Trail at Petit Jean State Park winds through grottos and forested canyons, while Lake Catherine Falls Trail is a shaded, family-friendly option with a gentle waterfall. For those near Bella Vista, the Tanyard Creek Loop is an easy 1.9-mile walk featuring caves, creeks, and fall foliage. All of these trails are dog-friendly, but leashes are required in Arkansas parks.

AI image designed with Bing Dalle 3 prompts by Sgolis


If you're hiking with a dog, bring water for both of you, and avoid trails with steep bluffs or narrow ledges if your dog is reactive. Always pack waste bags, and check for ticks after your hike. Arkansas is tick-prone in fall. Leashing your dog isn’t just courteous it’s required, and it protects wildlife, other hikers, and your own peace of mind.

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Before you hit the trail, tell someone your plan. Share your trail name, estimated return time, and route this is non-negotiable. Pack the Ten Essentials: a map, compass or GPS app, flashlight, first aid kit, extra food and water, layers, fire starter, knife, emergency shelter, and sun protection.

Dress in layers fall mornings are chilly, but afternoons can warm quickly. Avoid bulky coats and opt for breathable fabrics. Wear proper hiking boots with tread; flip-flops are a trip hazard. If you’re hiking alone, don’t advertise it to strangers on the trail.

SW MO Audubon nature trail original photo by Sgolis


Stay on marked paths fall is snake season, and wandering off-trail increases risk. Download trail maps ahead of time using apps like All Trails or Gaia GPS, and make sure they’re available offline, since cell service can be spotty.

Confidence is part of safety. Walk with purpose, even if you’re unsure. Trust your instincts if something feels off, turn around. Carry a whistle or personal alarm, and avoid wearing headphones so you can stay alert to your surroundings.

Emotional safety matters too. We hike because the forest heals. Because waterfalls don’t ask questions. Because grief, fear, and uncertainty deserve a place to breathe. This fall, let’s hike with intention. Let’s hike with preparation. Let’s hike for the joy of reclaiming what’s ours.

 

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Trail Blessing and Closing Words

To every woman who hikes alone, with her dog, or in quiet companionship: may your boots find steady ground, may your breath sync with the rhythm of the trees, and may your instincts guide you home. The forest doesn’t ask you to be fearless it asks you to be present. To listen. To prepare. To honor your own safety as sacred.

This fall, don’t let fear steal what the season offers. Let your dog be your companion, your preparation be your protection, and your love of the trail be your compass. Share your plan. Pack with care. Hike with purpose. And when the leaves fall around you, know your part of something ancient, resilient, and worth protecting.

You don’t have to give up what you love. You just have to hike like you mean it.


 

🧭 Resources for Confident Fall Hiking

This article published by Susan Golis, Freelance Writer, blogger, and Content Creator.  Image credit:  AI created by Susang6 and Original photographs captured by Golis while hiking in Arkansas and SW Missouri